Grounding and Staying Present

Our 5 external senses, proprioception, interoception and our vestibular systems are key to regulating our nervous system and healing trauma. We may not be used to being present, grounded or in our own body. We may be dissociated or unable to connect to ourselves. Memories or fear may overpower us dragging us into our past or future and disconnected in time. Flashbacks may cause a visceral and very real physical response. Here are some healing practices.
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Why Feeling Safe in Our Body is Sometimes a Challenge

Here's a short video on why tuning in to our body or thoughts can be challenging. Is that difficult for you?
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Understanding the Impact of Trauma and cPTSD

Understanding the Impact of Trauma and cPTSD
Realization that something isn’t right feels like finding yourself in the middle of a thicket of thorn bushes. Maybe you headed in for some tasty raspberries. Suddenly you realize you’re in the middle of the patch and you’re full of scratches. If you move you get scratched some more so maybe you just stand still for a bit while you figure out what’s going on. Carefully, you assess your situation. It’s not possible to stay there. What now??
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The Power of Aromatherapy and Forest Bathing for Emotional Balance

The Power of Aromatherapy and Forest Bathing for Emotional Balance
How can you balance emotions and calm yourself in a stressful environment? I share the importance of tuning into our bodies to strengthen and heal our nervous system. Some highlights are: the unique connection between aroma and our brains and how it can unlock us when we're stuck. Read more to explore the connection between nature, aromatherapy, and our nervous system. 
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The Inspirational Story of the Eagle and the Crow: Lessons on Overcoming Distractions

The Inspirational Story of the Eagle and the Crow: Lessons on Overcoming Distractions
Discover the inspiring story of the eagle and the crow and the valuable lessons it teaches us about staying focused and not letting distractions and criticism bring us down. Learn how the majestic eagle rises above it all and how you too can soar to new heights by adopting a similar mindset. This powerful lesson could change the way you approach challenges in your own life. Read on to find out more.
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Transforming Your Inner Dialogue: Overcoming Self-Criticism with Self-Compassion and Reflection

Transforming Your Inner Dialogue: Overcoming Self-Criticism with Self-Compassion and Reflection
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by negative self-talk? Discover how to harness the power of your inner voice and turn it into a positive force. In this article, we'll explore what an inner voice is, how it can become an inner critic, practical tips and most importantly, how to use your inner voice to uplift and encourage yourself. Don't let your inner critic hold you back any longer. Read on to learn how to take control of your thoughts and unlock your true potential. Read the full article and start your journey toward inner peace and self-compassion.

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Connect, Heal and Feel with Jennifer and James

Connect, Heal and Feel with Jennifer and James
We think our memories are about the past. However, our brain and nervous system use this information to evaluate and assess our present. Those memories also influence our current beliefs and ideas, plus form our thoughts about future outcomes and possibilities / limits
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Emotional Healing and Boundaries to Support Setting and Reaching Your Goals

We begin an upward spiral by addressing one of these three key areas. With emotional balance and a supportive inner voice, we set boundaries with ease, set and reach goals. Which one is your greatest challenge? Let's start with bringing that one into balance so you can start your upward spiral!
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Are Emotions Imperfect?

Are Emotions Imperfect?
What if you could back up and notice your emotions before they escalate? What if you heard their message and could address the situation quickly and easily, neither stuffing emotion down nor letting emotion spill out? Wouldn't that be great? What would your life look like flowing in peace? Does that sound good?
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Weeds of toxic thoughts, emotions and people

Weeds of toxic thoughts, emotions and people
You may have heard the poem “Your mind is a garden and your thoughts are the seeds, you can grow flowers or you can grow weeds” and I have a pallet painting with that quote - one of my favorites I've lived by all my life. An still I found ... 
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How Does Gratitude Change Your Brain?

How Does Gratitude Change Your Brain?
Could you use a lift? Does life sometimes feel overwhelming and heavy? How can you tap into more joy?
 
Early 2020 was a challenge for me, as it was for mostly everyone everywhere. To help me overcome my challenges, I researched, looked into the science and compared what I found to the scriptures. Learn how gratitude rewires your brain, increases serotonin and dopamine and what that means for your mental, emotional and physical health. Complimentary mini course link in the post.
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How Your Emotions Affect Your Health

How Your Emotions Affect Your Health
Do you experience random aches and pains? Are gut issues an ongoing problem for you? Both were true for me as far back as my preteen years. That’s a long time! Do you know what I found out that made a big difference for me? We are, as humans, interconnected parts. They ALL must be well for the whole being to be well and feel well.
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Your Healing MUST Outpace the Incoming and Ongoing Damage

Your Healing MUST Outpace the Incoming and Ongoing Damage
Do you struggle to keep up the pace? Here's what helped me
Many who connect with me feel weighed down and find it challenging to keep up with current responsibilities. Do you sometimes feel that way? It can feel like we're carrying a heavy backpack and trying to keep up the pace. Here's what helped me unload some of the heaviness in my figurative backpack
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Let Go of Painful Memories and Limiting Beliefs

Let Go of Painful Memories and Limiting Beliefs
Do you have difficult memories? Have you put them in a box in your mind and try to keep the lid closed? What if you had a way to let go of the emotional attachment and inner story connected to those memories? How free would you feel?
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Move Forward Toward Your Goals Fully Supported – what we learn from sailboats

Move Forward Toward Your Goals Fully Supported – what we learn from sailboats
Did you know I used to think of myself as an introvert? Do you feel free and open to people, or is it scary? Do you warmly welcome interaction with others? Do you feel comfortable with most people? Do you feel fully supported by those around you? Do the people you interact with daily empower and lift you? If not, what can we do about it? Do we have a measure of control? Here’s what I learned.
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When is Fear a Good Thing?

When is Fear a Good Thing?
Can fear be your ally, a good thing? Is there ever a time we can say "thank you" to fear? I didn't used to think so and here's what I learned when I reflected...
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Seven Tips for Handling Challenging Situations

Seven Tips for Handling Challenging Situations
Tips for Handling Challenging Situations
1.  Acknowledge your situation (Sometimes it’s easier to stay in denial when facing a difficult situation)
2. Do an Aroma Reset on your situation to help you with these simple steps:
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